October 22, 1999

GAY PEOPLE'S CHRONICLE 25

Lisa Gilbert, M.D.; Martha Webb, CCDC;

John R. O'Connor, ACSW LISW

12429 Cedar Rd., Sultes 21-24 Cleve Hts., 44106

Antone Feo, Ph.D. and Associates

24500 Center Ridge #100, Westlake

440-899-1300

Institute for Sexual Wellness Westlake

440-899-1300

Laurelwood Counseling Center

6500 Rockside #160, Independence

520-4061

Jane Miller, MSSA, LSW

resourcedirectory

D.L. Dunkle & Associates

Debra Dunkle, ACSW LISW; Jane Miller, MSSA LSW

229-2100

Bowling Green Gay-Lesbian Info Line

Mon-Wed-Fri 7-10 p.m.

Chautauqua County, N.Y. Infoline

North, 716-679-3560

Cincinnati Gay & Lesbian Switchboard

419-352-5242

South, 716-484-8434 513-591-0222 Battered Women's Hotline, Cleve, 24 hours.. 216-391-4357 Battered Women's Hotline Medina, Summit Counties 24 hrs toll-free .... Cleveland Lesbian-Gay Hotline..... .Evenings 216-861-5454 24-hour automated info line Toll free 888-429-8761

888-395-4357

PETS

Coventry Cats▼

1810 Coventry Rd, Cleve. Hts.

216-321-3033

PRINTERS & MAIL SERVICES

216-781-6736 RADIO & TELEVISION

TDD 216-861-4477

216-631-8646

Alice Paul Direct Mail Service▼ 3121 Bridge Ave, Cleveland

5 South Main St., Oberlin

800-457-0345

Jeffrey Mostade, PCC, NCC

24500 Center Ridge #100, Westlake

.............. 440-899-1300

John R. O'Connor, ACSW LISW....................

Columbus Gay-Lesbian Info Line. Dayton Gay-Lesbian Hotline 7 to 11 pm Erie, Pa., Info Line

614-299-7764 937-274-1776 814-453-5656, 814-456-9833

800-938-9973

"AIDS Update" Sun 7:30 pm, Thur 11:30 am cable channel 21, Columbus "Alternating Currents" Cincinnati

Sat. 3-5 pm, WAIF 88.3 FM

513-961-8900

5 South Main Street, Oberlin

Nicholas Palumbo, ACSW, LISW

20800 Center Ridge #113

440-331-2898

Free Clinic of Cleveland 12201 Euclid Gay-Lesbian Youth Hotline Sun-Thu 7-10pm, Fri-Sat 7-midnight

216-721-1115

"The Gay '90s" Sun. 8-9 pm, WERE 1300 AM Cleve.

Pride Institute at Solutions

800-342-5429

445-8277

873-9866

440-808-8000

440-247-3355

440-247-5268

Lakewood 216-226-2660.

216-371-8489 Akron 330-253-9330

216-529-7020

216-228-6622

stlake

..........

440-899-4400

COLUMBUS AREA CODE 614 Affirmations ▼ 918 S. Front St., Cols 43206

AKRON, CANTON, KENT AREA CODE 330

Helmuth Psychological Associates

3200 W. Market St., Akron 44333

CROSSDRESSING.

See Transgender

ELECTROLYSIS

Maureen O'Beraigh, C.T., Electrolysis Lakw. 216-228-8886 FINANCIAL SERVICES

AmEx Financial Toby D. Oster Cle. 216-447-8870 ext. 267 AmEx Financial Tim Jenkins Clev... 216-447-8870 ext. 277

FURNITURE

Brewster & Stroud, Westlake

Chagrin Falls

Cottonwood, Chagrin Falls

House of Mastick 14047 Madison, Lakwd 216-221-6848

Norka Futon Cleveland Heights

GIFTS CARDS; & T-SHIRTS

Big Fun

1827 Coventry Rd, Cleve Hts..... 216-371-4386 Night Sweats & T-Cells 277 Martinel Drive, Kent 44240 Premiere Screening, Screen printing Kent.... 330-673-2808

Four Seasons 11002 Clifton, Cleveland........ 216-281-1220

HEALTH CARE

Lakewood Hospital

Teen Crisis Hotline, GLBT & questioning

Trevor Project 24-hour

Toledo Referral Line, PRO-Domrose Foundation 4 pm to 10 pm....

Townhall II 24-hour helpline Walk-in 8 am-8 pm, 123 S. Water St, WomenSpace Helpline, Cleveland Monday Friday 10 am 4 pm Youngstown P-FLAG Helpline (24 hr). AIDS Helpline

INSURANCE

JEWELERS

Keith Jewelers

26117 Brookpark Rd., North Olmsted

Nicholas Jewelers, 2161 S. Green Rd., Univ. Hts. 216-381-3075 Rinaldi Jewelers 2028 East 9th St., Clev.. 216-566-0603

PVC MASSOTHERAPY

Chiropractic Health Services, Dr. David Budny 16900 Detroit Avenue, Lakewood

Community Family Medicine

Dr. Robert Kuhnhenn, Dr. Colette Willins 29325 He Campus Dr #1,

800-347-8336 GLAAD, Report media anti-gay defamation.. 800-429-6334 Morgantown, W.V. Gay-Les. Switchboard 304-292-4292 National Gay-Lesbian Hotline Mon-Fri 6-10 pm, Sat noon-5..... Ohio State Univ. Gay-Lesbian Alliance

.....

888-843-4564 .......... 614-292-9212

Live call-in 216-578-1300 "Gay Talk Radio" Sun. 2 pm, WXUT 88.3 FM Toledo Live call-in 419-530-4172 "GayWaves" Friday 7 pm, WRUW 91.1 FM Cleveland "Hold That Door" Thursday, 10:00 p.m. -midnight, WUJC 88.7 FM, Cleveland

216-221-4949

Rev. Renee Goodman, Committment vows 440-247-2772 Rev. Mary Grigolia, Commitment vows Integrity-Northeast Ohio (Episcopal)

Male, 939-0405 Female, 691-9372

• 3rd Sat 5 pm, potluck & prgrm, Christ Ch., 3445 Warmsville, Shkr Hts

Interweave (UU, Lesbian-Gay Concerns)

20401 Hilliard, Rocky River

Liberation United Church of Christ ▼

440-333-2255

13714 Madison Ave., Lakewood

..... 521-5556

Rev. Dan Geslin

• Worship, Sun 10:30 am

Lutherans Concerned

P.O. Box 20088, Shaker Hts. 44120

321-4845

⚫4th Fri., Hope Lutheran Church, Taylor & Northvale, Cleveland Hts. More Light Presbyterians 2780 Noble, Clev Hts.. 932-1458 ⚫2nd Sat 5:30 pm, potluck and program

Bill Newberry Unitarian Universalist minister Committment vows

Noble Rd. Presbyterian Church

382-0480

Sun 10 am, 2780 Noble, Cleve. Hts.

382-0660

Oberlin Unitarian Univer'Ist Fellowship

216-368-2208

12354 Ohio Rt. 58, Oberlin

440-775-3766

Olmsted Unitarian Universalist Congregation 5050 Porter, N. Olmsted

440-777-6622

Project Inform, AIDS treatments

"In the Company of Womyn" Sun. 9-11 pm,

Pilgrim Congregational Church, UCC

347 Dolores #301, S.F., Ca. 94110

800-822-7422

WXUT 88.3 FM, Toledo

Rape Crisis Center, Cleveland

216-619-6192

Rape Helpline, Columbus

614-267-7020

614-224-2288

Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network

800-656-4673

Sexual Health Infomation Line

Tue, Wed, Thur 6-10 pm

614-262-3556

800-850-8078

419-472-2364 Ravenna, 330-296-2255 Kent...... 330-678-4357

216-696-3100 330-747-2696

330-742-8796

.... 227-KIDD (227-5433) Progressive Urban Real Estate 619-9696 4001 Detroit Ave., Cleveland Jim Muhic, Jill Angelovic, Keith Brown, Michele Anderson, Danny Schafer Real Estate Mortgage Corp..

"Lesbian-Gay-Bi Report" Mon & Sat 11:30 pm, Cable Ch. 21, Cols..

• Also Tues and Thurs, 9:30 pm, Athens public access channel "This Way Out" Thursday, 5:30 pm, WCSB 89.3 FM, Clev "This Way Out" Monday, 7:30 pm, WOBC 91.5 FM, Oberlin REAL ESTATE

CLEVELAND AREA CODE 216 (440 WHERE NOTED) ERA Lentz Associates, Inc., Debbie Kidd Cleveland

Southwest Unitarian Universalst Church, Rev. Paul Beckel P.O. Box 360002, Strongsville 44136

• 1st, 3rd Thu 7:30 pm, Meditation, YWCA, 13169 Smith, Middlb'g Hts

• Echoes of ending relationships, 2nd, 4th Thu 7:30 pm, call for info

Sun 10:30 am, Thu 6 pm, 2592 W 14, Cle.. Simpson United Methodist Church

861-7388

8519 Clark Ave., Cleveland

281-9776

440-816-1686

•Sept-June, Sun 10:30 am, Center Jr. High Sch, 10300 Pearl, Strong'vl

St. John's Episcopal Church Sun 11 am

2600 Church, Cleve (Ohio City)

781-5546

Unitarian Universalist Society of Cleveland

2728 Lancashire, Cleveland Hts..

932-1898

United Church of Christ Coalition for Lesbian-Gay Concerns

861-7388

440-356-5363

20325 Center Ridge Rd. #220, Rocky River

Realty One, John Lauro

Allstate Insurance, Don Kramer

Office

991-8400 Voicemail 999-2056

13324 Madison, Lakewood

216-221-6263

State Farm, Jean Jones

RELIGIOUS & SPIRITUAL GROUP

1653 Merriman Rd. #108, Akron 44313 Betsy Warner

330-864-8866

2479 Lee Blvd., Cleveland Hts. 44118

216-932-6900

CLEVELAND AREA CODE 216 (440 WHERE NOTED)

• 4th Sun. 7 pm, Pilgrim UCC, 2592 West 14th St., Cleve. (Tremont) Urban Hope Unitarian Universalist Cong. 631-4981 3204 Lorain, Clev. (Box 94184, Clev. 44101) 556-3316 •1st Sun 5pm, Meditiation; ⚫3rd Sun 5 pm, New American Sprituality West Shore Unitarian Universalist Church

20401 Hilliard, Rocky River

Zion United Church of Christ Sun 10:30 am,

2716 W. 14th, Clev. (Tremont).

861-2371

• Gay-lesbian book discuss'n, 2nd Mon, Borders Westlake, 961-5751

COLUMBUS AREA CODE 614

440-333-2255

A Common Bond (Gay ex-Jehovah's Witnesses) Box 91853 Cle. 44101

749-1982

"Always our Children" group, 3rd Sun 1 pm, St. Francis Church 386 Buttles

299-5781

Archwood United Church of Christ ▼

2800 Archwood Ave., Cleveland.

351-1060

440-734-6677

The Beacon Fellowship, Box 298177, Columbus 43229 beaconfiwshp@juno.com

265-1725

• Worship Sun 9 & 11 am

Calvary Lutheran Ch., 1761 Bairsford, Cols.......

864-1301

• Grace Celebration, share joy, singing, Thur 6 pm

B'nai Emeth (Jewish)

556-1764

Brian Keating 3052 West Blvd, Cleveland Steve Skowran, 24500 Center Ridge #100, Westlake.................

216-671-0663

c/o West Shore UU Ch, 20401 Hilliard, Rocky River 44116 •Services Fri. 8 pm and Sat. 10:30 am, Torah study Sat 9:15 am Chevrei Tikva (Jewish) P.O. Box 18120, Cleveland Hts. 44118-0120.

• Sun 10:30 am; www.elca.org/syn/cong/oh/43232/calvary1.html Catholic Gay Men's Support Group

64 W. Lane Ave., Cols. 43201

Christ United Evangelical Church

Box 141264, Columbus 43214

291-4674

297-6317

932-5551

440-899-1300

• Shabbat, 1st & 3rd Fri 8 pm, Unitarian Society, 2728 Lancashire, Cleveland Heights

Midwest Chiropractic, Dr. Monica Wloszek 5500 Ridge Rd., Parma

440-886-6500

Midwest Chiropractic, Dr. Suzanna Massey 2179 Taylor, Cleveland Hts

YMCA, 3200 Franklin Ave., Cleveland

Church of the Redeemer (Methodist),

Sun 11 am, 2420 S. Taylor, Clev. Hts.

216-371-6200

New Hope Alterntive Therapy Research ▼ 2012 W. 25th St. #916, Cleveland

216-363-5060

Box 50360, Washington, D.C. 20091

202-583-8029

Northrn Ohio Physicians for Human Rights.. 216-281-7418 Rona Levin, Clinical Hypnotherapist, Cleve.. 216-751-4802

HOME REPAIRS & IMPROVEMENTS

Joe's Plumbing, Basment Waterproofing Cleveland

Home Environments, Professional Renovations Cleveland

• Worship Sun 11 am; potluck at noon on last Sunday of month Community Church of Chesterland

NATIONAL ORGANIZATIONS –

AIDS Action Council 1875 Conn. Ave NW #700, Washington D.C. 20009

202-986-1300 Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD) 150 W. 26 St #503, New York, N.Y. 10001....... 212-807-1700 Gay-Lesbian Parents Coalition

Human Rights Campaign

• Locations vary for Torah study, 3rd Sat; Kesher class, 3rd Sun Christian Bible Study Group

Cleveland Meeting, Religious Society of Friends (Quakers) 10906 Magnolia 791-2220

⚫Sun 6p, 1st Cong. Ch., 444 E Broad; Bible study Wed 7p, call for place Dignity (Catholic) P.O. Box 82001, Cols 43202. 451-6528 dignitygc@aol.com

www.dignitygc.org

• 2nd & 4th Sun. 6 pm, First Cong. Ch., 444 East Broad St., Cols. First Baptist Church of Granville 115 W. Broadway, Granville 43023 First Church of Religious Science 3281 N High St., Columbus 43214 First Unitarian Universalist Church 93 W. Weisheimer, Columbus 43214. •U.U. Humanists, 3rd Wed 7:30pm, 890-0653

•Sisters of Lavender, Wed; 575-9646

341-3729

932-2065

740-587-0336

261-0887

267-4946

1012 14th St. NW Wash, D.C. 20005

202-628-4160

11984 Caves Rd., Chesterland

440-729-7898

Lambda Legal Defense, Midwest office

Cove United Methodist Church

521-7424

Friends for Lesbian-Gay Concerns, Quaker gathering, 4th Sunday 488-2096

11 E Adams #1008, Chicago 60603 .................. 312-663-4413

Sun 10:45 am, 12501 Lake Ave., Lakewood

Humanist Community of Central Ohio

National Center for Lesbian Rights

Dignity-Cleveland (Catholic)

P.O. Box 141373, Cols. 43214

470-0811

216-961-6086

216-651-4685

HOTLINES

AIDS Hotline Ohio

870 Market, #570 S.F. Cal. 94102 Nationall Gay and Lesbian Task Force 2320 17th St N.W. Washington, DC 20009 National Organization for Women Washington, D.C.

415-392-6257

P.O. Box 91697, Cleveland 44101

731-5365

Integrity (Episcopal) Box 10814, Cols. 43201.

443-1073

202-332-6483

• 4th Sun 11 am, Our Lady of Peace Catholic Ch., E. 126th at Shaker East Shore Unitarian Universalist Church ▼ 8181 Center, Mentor

440-255-8171

202-331-0066

800-332-AIDS (332-2437)

Servicemembers Legal Defense Network Assists with military ban

Emmanuel Christian Fellowship Church 10034 Lorain Ave., Cleveland

• 2nd Thurs 7:30 pm, Stonewall Center, 1160 N. High St. Jericho Road Community Church, UCC 333 Jericho Rd. off Ohio 256, Pickerington www.jerichoroaducc.org

501-0076

bjscott1@earthlink.net

651-0129

202-328-3247

TDD:

Spanish

Community AIDS Network

800-DEAF-TTY (332-3889)

800-344-7432

PASTRIES

•Worship Sundays 6:30 pm; prayer service Wednesdays 7 pm Euclid Ave. Congregational Church, UCC 9606 Euclid, Cleveland

Lamb of God Anglican Church, Box 164472, Cols. 43216 Logeaca@aol.com 252-7288 •Holy Eucharist, Sun 5 p, Broad St. Meth. Ch. chapel, 501 E. Broad

791-5200

Akron AIDS Hotline, 24 hour

First Unitarian Church ▼

330-375-2437 (375-AIDS)

Sweet Arts, Custom cakes, pastries 17008 Lorain Ave. Cleveland

21600 Shaker Blvd., Shaker Hts.

751-2320

216-476-2253

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⚫Sun. 10:30 am service "Welcoming Congregation" Committee

Dykes To Watch Out For by Alison Bechdel

I.D. fixe?

1999 BY ALISON BECHDEL

YOU'RE

A SWEETHEART, LOIS. SEE YA

LATER.

323

YOUR MAIL.

*KAY, JERRY. HAVE

FUN.

BRIDE'S MAGAZINE?

WHO WAS THAT? DON'T TELL

ME YOU'RE SEEING

A MAN TOO.

IS THERE SOMETHING YOU'D LIKE TO TELL ME, SPARROW? ASIDE FROM THE FACT THAT ORGANZA IS BACK?

NO, JUST LENDING HIM A TIE. THOUGH HE IS KIND OF HOT.

OH MY GOD! I BET MY MOM DID THIS! EVER SINCE I CAME OUT TO HER ABOUT STUART, SHE THINKS IT MEANS I'M STRAIGHT, SHE CAN'T UNDERSTAND THAT I'M A BISEXUAL LESBIAN!

HE REMINDS ME OF SOMEONE... WHATSERNAME... YOU KNOW, THAT BUFF BABE, YOUR MECHANIC?

GERALDINE, EXACTLY. ONLY NOW HE'S A BUFF TRANS GUY, AND HIS NAME'S JERRY

WELL, IT'S A NUANCE THAT CAN ELUDE THE BEST OF US.

LOOK, IN A PERFECT

WORLD, I WOULDN'T HAVE TO CALL MYSELF ANYTHING. BUT FOR NOW, BI-DYKE WORKS FOR ME, OKAY?

00

HMO PHOBIC

ARE YOU SERIOUS? LIKE, WITH SURGERY?

NGOVEN'S

BAGELS

UH..." SOMETIMES

PEOPLE CHANGE?'

AND TESTOSTERONE? "IDENTITY IS COM-

GOD, I JUST CAN'T

UNDERSTAND THAT!

PLEX AND FLUID?"

ANY OF THAT RING ABELL?

I THINK I'M

A BUTCH LESBIAN IN A STRAIGHT MAN'S BODY.

CHANGING YOUR BODY TO CONFORM TO A RIGID, CONVENTIONAL GENDER IDENTITY IS JUST MORE BINARY THINKING! WHAT WAS WRONG WITH BEING A BUTCH DYKE?

SOFT BUTCH. MAYBE.

IT'S NOT AS SIMPLE FOR EVERYONE AS IT IS FOR YOU. GINGER! SOMETIMES PEOPLE CHANGE. IDENTITY IS SO MUCH MORE COMPLEX AND FLUID THAN THESE RIGID LITTLE CATEGORIES OF STRAIGHT, GAY, AND BI CAN POSSIBLY REFLECT.

HE DOESN'T FEEL LIKE A BUTCH DYKE. HE FEELS LIKE A GAY

SKIP FLUID. PRESS "LIQUEFY."

OH MY GOD! GERAL-

DINE FROM RAIN.

BOW AUTOMOTIVE?!

I USED TO HAVE SUCH

MAN.

ATHING FOR HER! I MEAN HIM...I MEAN...!

WOW!

DON'T GET

TOO EXCITED,

STU. HE

GOES MORE

FOR THE

STUDHORSE

TYPE.

HMO

HORK